Guy's Day Out.

Awesome day with 2 really dear brothers at Vivo and United Square! Caught "Handsome Suit" with them and found it to be quite a funny show! Ha. Among us 3 i think i laughed the most and loudest, that's because i have a bigger funny bone. =0

Well, I guess the movie really cleared up the atmosphere a lil as one of us was feeling abit emo. That's why we met in the first place! Hahaha brothers in Christ must support each other man and thank God all 3 of us could meet today as if by divine appointment. So we chatted at this cafe that overlooks the port about some serious stuff! So here are a couple (less private) points of our discussions:

• Is it okay to date a non-Christian?

We all agreed that..

1. this is kind of a grey area as none of us have come across a verse that says "no" and also, we've seen people come to know Christ thru their bfs and gfs.
2. dating should have a purpose (which is marriage) and not just "for experience" or "fun" and most certainly not for sensual desires! (now this may sound really funny in modern times and rather old-fashioned but we seek to honor God and ladies!)
3. no.. it's not really good to date a non-Christian, not because it's wrong but because we felt that Christ should come first in our lives and same goes for them to know Him! (because no man nor woman's love can ever replace the love of God! =D)
4. it's gonna be hard to hold true because there'd be lots of emotions involved!
5. it's okay to make and maintain friendships with girls.
   

I'd say we really had a fruitful discussion bout this. We still had our disagreements and opinions but at least we had a similar base of understanding! (And sam is emo no more!) Mmm and just like he said, i think we have really grown up, a couple years back we'd be simply teasing each other when it comes to these issues. I pray that we would continue to grow as men after God's heart!

p.s. my enlistment's in Sept! Thank God, really! Now i'll be able to go to East Timor muahahaha. (tho i've only got my mom's permission and i've yet to speak to my dad. However i'm sure God is faithful and i'm counting on Him!)